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YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/WIVES’ SEXUALITY: MS. MYTH – THE DRY-ORGASM MYTH

18th May 2009

I get this warm, full feeling. And then, when I come, I almost wet the bed. I used to think it was urine, but it isn’t. I feel it come out differently, sort of squeezing out in little spurts.

WIFE

Some women lose urine during sexual response. When you suspect this is the case, a complete urological examination is in order. Be sure to tell the doctor the exact circumstances under which you experience this loss of urine. If you cannot talk candidly with your doctor, you have the wrong doctor. Ask for a referral from your local medical school. If you masturbate, notice if urine seems to escape under that circumstance. If there is a medical reason for this loss of urine, a specific physiological cause, it is possible to correct it. Sometimes surgery will be required.

Remember, feelings of urinary urgency are related to emotional states as often as they are related to anything physical. Excitement, fear, anticipation, and anxiety can all cause upnary loss. Some loss of urine with orgasmic contraction is not unusual in women, for their orgasmic physiological contractions do not prevent loss of urine as happens in men.

In some cases, women do experience an emission of fluid through the urinary meatus, the opening to the urethra which transports the urine outside of the body. Data indicates that a very small number of women report this fluid during orgasm. The fluid is not ejaculate, urine, or vaginal lubrication, but seems to come from the Skene’s glands along the urethra.

Of the 1,000 women in the 1,000 marriages, 106 reported that they felt and saw some fluid released with orgasmic contractions. So, while women do not really ejaculate in the sense of forcefully emitting a fluid, some women do report what they feel to be an ejaculatory type feeling at orgasm. This seems particularly true in what I call Type II orgasms, the concern of myth number two.